absolutum dominium

girls can be emotional. i don't know how it comes to be, but sometimes i think emotions might just be a curse.

but anyway sometimes we get really affected by friendships or other relationships and we feel guilty and we blame ourselves, and sometimes the fault doesn't lie so much with us, but the expectations or the perceptions about us that we are placed under and expected to conform to.

and sometimes it really hurts, but it's better to let go. better to keep your pride and your dignity and let go, than hold on to something that isn't really there.

sometimes it's about asking yourself what is truly important to you, what really matters to you, and making your standpoint. you would be surprised at how much how little thought can do for you.

we have control over our lives. we might not be able to control the world or other people, and most of the time we are hurt for this very reason. but we can control ourselves, our reactions, or mindsets and our plans of action.

sometimes it just takes the 2 simple words for you to pick yourself up from the ground where you've fallen and keep walking.

"move on."